Wedding Butler

  I was recently asked to give a keynote speech to the inaugural Bridal Brunch.   I thought that he most important thing to talk to couples about, regardless of where they are on their wedding day journey was how to have a stress free day and stress free wedding planning.   If you didn’t get to hear it in person, here’s what I said!   Are you just starting your Wedding Planning? No idea how to begin? Dream the Day… Wedding planning can be a very stressful time – it’s a huge undertaking that is outside most people’s experience.   Faced with a blank piece of paper headed “Wedding Plans”, many couples realise that they have absolutely no idea how to start, or what they want or need.   To counter this stress, sit down, and write a letter (or email or message) to a friend, telling them all about your wedding as though it happened last week. You will find yourself describing your dream wedding, and it will pull ideas almost from your subconscious about ho...

  Once Upon A Time…well, last week actually, but isn’t that how we start stories? – I was regaling a table of guests at a bridal event with stories of celebrities I have met during events work in London.  In truth, the specific stories I was telling doesn’t matter, what matters is the telling of stories.  Why do I consider stories to be so important?   Well, we all grew up with stories – bedtime reading, fairy tales and more.   They teach us to read but, more importantly they teach us about the world, they teach us to dream, to fantasise, and they connect us. A story can be as simple as what you did today – but told in an engaging and (hopefully) entertaining way.   In my world of hospitality (which sometimes feels like a fantasy world!) stories are useful on a personal level to be able to engage with guests.   Its all part of communicating and building relationships.   Because I spend so much of my time making sure all my guests are feeli...

  Following the recent Bridebook survey of over 6,500 brides and grooms, it appears that traditions and themes for weddings are changing.    Gen Z couples in particular are looking for something a bit different – dropping some traditions but embracing others.   They are also looking for something special, something memorable and something personal.   If you’re looking for something that brings in tradition, with a twist, opulence and fun, then the “Bridgerton Vibe” is possibly for you, or at least a starting point! You don’t need to be from the aristocracy to pull it off.   Sure, you could go all out -there are some beautiful manor houses and country House hotels available – or you can use elements of it to make your own day. Bridgerton is opulent and grand – but you can distil that down to traditional formal. Think shining cutlery, sparkling glassware, a “proper” sit down meal.   Bring in that feel of grandeur but on a smaller more manageable scal...